In my recent Leading with Spirit podcast episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Abiola Abrams, an influential author, spiritual teacher, and founder of the Goddess of Manifesting Retreat. Abiola’s journey to self-love and ancestral wisdom offers powerful lessons in resilience, self-worth, and empowerment. Here, we explore her key insights on self-love, manifestation, and connecting with African Goddess energy.
Finding Self-Love After Loss
Abiola’s path took a significant turn after a painful divorce, which became an unexpected catalyst for growth. Through this experience, she realized that true self-love requires embracing oneself without conditions. This process of healing led her to integrate ancestral practices, particularly African Goddess wisdom, into her own life and teachings. “If you’re still breathing, you’re still evolving,” she shared, underscoring the ongoing nature of self-love and healing.
Practicing Self-Love Authentically
For Abiola, self-love begins with radical self-acceptance. To fully practice self-love, she recommends starting with a commitment to accept who you are right now, without needing to change instantly. From this grounded place, she believes we can create a life that resonates deeply with our true selves.
Self-Worth Through African Goddess Energy
Abiola also draws upon African Goddess energy as a source of strength, resilience, and self-worth. Through the lens of this ancestral wisdom, she teaches that we each possess a sacred worth that can withstand life’s challenges. Practices inspired by African Goddess energy, such as honoring one’s inner voice and connecting with personal rituals, can nurture self-worth and inspire confidence.
Manifesting Dreams with Courage and Gratitude
Abiola offers a fresh perspective on manifestation. She believes manifesting begins with gratitude for what we have while allowing ourselves the courage to dream bigger. Her approach involves recognizing and honoring current blessings while still reaching for more. This balance, she explains, fuels personal growth while cultivating a mindset of both abundance and ambition.
Through her work, Abiola empowers others to embrace self-love, rootedness, and resilience, reminding us that self-worth and courage are central to manifesting a fulfilling life.
You can listen to the full story on Leading With Spirit [Episode #95]: Journey to Self-Love: Lessons from Loss, Growth, and Goddess Energy with Abiola Abrams